My Angelman Life As Alex...that is the title of my latest video. It's basically ordinary things we do with Alex with emphasis on his new iPad. He loves it and we feel it can be a good communication tool! This is just the beginning of his new experience with his new iPad. I battled with the editing feature of Windows Moviemaker and wasn't pleased with the quality of the video. However, the finished product is as good as it could be when a program freezes and does not allow you to see a preview of the video! Oh well, I AM an amateur at videotaping! Take a look and see if you like it!
Sunday, November 20, 2011
Sunday, November 13, 2011
EARLY ONSET OF ALZHEIMERS....A MENTAL ILLNESS ONGOING!
Let me be candid about events in our life that may be useful for many. It is about MENTAL ILLNESS. In particular early onset of Alzheimers! I will omit dates, location and names to protect the privacy of family members!
I come from a large family of eight including my parents and lived in a small town in northern California, USA. We were an inquisitive bunch who wanted to know about our grandparents. What child does not ask questions about family! We were no different!
I will begin with the illness of an uncle, my mother's brother. He began with difficulty in walking! Back problems, the doctors would say. He was 41 when this problem began. Many medical visits over a course of years that finally resulted in an Alzheimers diagnosis. My uncle's condition became progressively worse, even having personality changes such as aggression! His wife patiently cared for him as long as she could, then placed him in a convalescent hospital. She visited him every day. He died at 49 years of age. During the course of his illness, my sister investigated into the death of our grandfather who died in our hometown. His death was never discussed!
You see, there was a shame that beclouded any conversation about my grandfather. He died in a mental hospital in our hometown. Mother would never talk about it! But now, it was important! Grandfather had shown the same characteristics of this phantom illneness!
In the early days treatment of mental illness was rather crude! Lock them up and medicate them. Shock treatment was the quick fix! My mother would later tell us that he would say he was mistreated, but no one listened! Part of his illness? Who can say! His death certificate would reveal cerebral dementia, not exactly in those words but similar! He also died in his forties.
At forty years of age, a cousin began showing the same symptoms of Alzheimers. He progressively became ill with dementia and personality changes. It continued for years and was placed in a convalescent hospital! Again, his mother visited every day, taking his laundry home to wash and return the next day! Yes, she was wife to the uncle mentioned above and now was caring for her son.
He died in his late forties!
By now the family has accepted the fact that this is genetic! Through a search of our family history, we found that two additional cousins as well as an aunt, has died. All in their forties! Currently a cousin (not in this country) is showing the same Alzheimer symptoms as well as another here nearer to home! It is disturbing to us to have this menacing illness in our midst.
In 2005, we lost our elderly mother in death. She lived a long life with no symptoms of Alzheimers until one year before she died. The doctor's classified it as dementia. It was NOT an early onset of this illness. For that we are grateful! Her cognition would come and go. She never lost the ability to recognize her children. She did periodically forget what day it was and would cry uncontrollably. We feel she dodged the bullet! She was directly related to all persons mentioned in this story
Of course, it is of concern to us...this menacing illness. We realize the Alzheimers is not the only disease to fear. Other mental illnesses can invade the family...we have prepared ourselves! As a family, we trust that ALL diseases and sicknesses will be wiped out. Revelation 21:3,4. This is not a fantasy! It will happen! This hope sustains us while we cope with any death dealing diagnosis coming our way!
I come from a large family of eight including my parents and lived in a small town in northern California, USA. We were an inquisitive bunch who wanted to know about our grandparents. What child does not ask questions about family! We were no different!
I will begin with the illness of an uncle, my mother's brother. He began with difficulty in walking! Back problems, the doctors would say. He was 41 when this problem began. Many medical visits over a course of years that finally resulted in an Alzheimers diagnosis. My uncle's condition became progressively worse, even having personality changes such as aggression! His wife patiently cared for him as long as she could, then placed him in a convalescent hospital. She visited him every day. He died at 49 years of age. During the course of his illness, my sister investigated into the death of our grandfather who died in our hometown. His death was never discussed!
You see, there was a shame that beclouded any conversation about my grandfather. He died in a mental hospital in our hometown. Mother would never talk about it! But now, it was important! Grandfather had shown the same characteristics of this phantom illneness!
In the early days treatment of mental illness was rather crude! Lock them up and medicate them. Shock treatment was the quick fix! My mother would later tell us that he would say he was mistreated, but no one listened! Part of his illness? Who can say! His death certificate would reveal cerebral dementia, not exactly in those words but similar! He also died in his forties.
At forty years of age, a cousin began showing the same symptoms of Alzheimers. He progressively became ill with dementia and personality changes. It continued for years and was placed in a convalescent hospital! Again, his mother visited every day, taking his laundry home to wash and return the next day! Yes, she was wife to the uncle mentioned above and now was caring for her son.
He died in his late forties!
By now the family has accepted the fact that this is genetic! Through a search of our family history, we found that two additional cousins as well as an aunt, has died. All in their forties! Currently a cousin (not in this country) is showing the same Alzheimer symptoms as well as another here nearer to home! It is disturbing to us to have this menacing illness in our midst.
In 2005, we lost our elderly mother in death. She lived a long life with no symptoms of Alzheimers until one year before she died. The doctor's classified it as dementia. It was NOT an early onset of this illness. For that we are grateful! Her cognition would come and go. She never lost the ability to recognize her children. She did periodically forget what day it was and would cry uncontrollably. We feel she dodged the bullet! She was directly related to all persons mentioned in this story
Of course, it is of concern to us...this menacing illness. We realize the Alzheimers is not the only disease to fear. Other mental illnesses can invade the family...we have prepared ourselves! As a family, we trust that ALL diseases and sicknesses will be wiped out. Revelation 21:3,4. This is not a fantasy! It will happen! This hope sustains us while we cope with any death dealing diagnosis coming our way!
Saturday, November 12, 2011
I Knew What I Wanted And Waited! Married For 35 Years
Preparing for a lifelong marriage takes some planning and a great amount of consideration to the ideal mate. I do not use the word "perfect" because there is no such person. At least we could come close, thus the "ideal"
My first marriage was not a well thought move on my part. There was no planning. I was quite young...17 years old. What did I know and why do I need to consider my future! NOW is what matters, or at least that is what I thought. The marriage did not last and children were left to feel the affects of divorced parents. That marriage lasted 12 years.
So, when I was alone with four children, I begin to look to the future with more seriousness. For the first two years as a divorced woman, I was fully content with raising my children alone. After all, I thought, who would want me with a big family! I was content with my life!
After these two years, I began thinking of a mate to help me, share my goals, be my partner in this busy life I had started. The attention I received for the next three years from men was encouraging, but I made no marriage decisions.
I was determined to find a marriage mate that would be as devoted to our family arrangement as I was. Of course, he would need to have a job, be kind and find me irrestible! To find me attractive would be a plus. I would have to find him attractive as well!
I did find him when I was the least bit interested in looking for anyone. I was invited to a gathering, and there we met through a mutual friend. Who knew?
Below is my "ideal" and myself. Photo was taken about ten years ago!
We met in April.....married in August...after five years alone, and now have 35 years of marriage! We have two daughters and five grandchildren in addition to my "first batch".
I knew what I wanted in a man and waited until I found that person. My expectations were high but not out of reach!
We now serve Jehovah God together along with our family! It was well worth the wait!
My first marriage was not a well thought move on my part. There was no planning. I was quite young...17 years old. What did I know and why do I need to consider my future! NOW is what matters, or at least that is what I thought. The marriage did not last and children were left to feel the affects of divorced parents. That marriage lasted 12 years.
So, when I was alone with four children, I begin to look to the future with more seriousness. For the first two years as a divorced woman, I was fully content with raising my children alone. After all, I thought, who would want me with a big family! I was content with my life!
After these two years, I began thinking of a mate to help me, share my goals, be my partner in this busy life I had started. The attention I received for the next three years from men was encouraging, but I made no marriage decisions.
I was determined to find a marriage mate that would be as devoted to our family arrangement as I was. Of course, he would need to have a job, be kind and find me irrestible! To find me attractive would be a plus. I would have to find him attractive as well!
I did find him when I was the least bit interested in looking for anyone. I was invited to a gathering, and there we met through a mutual friend. Who knew?
Below is my "ideal" and myself. Photo was taken about ten years ago!
We met in April.....married in August...after five years alone, and now have 35 years of marriage! We have two daughters and five grandchildren in addition to my "first batch".
I knew what I wanted in a man and waited until I found that person. My expectations were high but not out of reach!
We now serve Jehovah God together along with our family! It was well worth the wait!
Tuesday, November 8, 2011
Cancer: Why Is It Important What I Say Or Don't Say!
Most of us have been touched by this terrible dreaded disease. CANCER! The name somehow carries with it a death sentence. Of course, the many cancer survivors are changing that! For the purpose of this blog, we will speak of those are terminally ill!
There are routine exams that will detect a potential problem long before it becomes serious. For men, prostate, lung and colon cancer are the most common. In women, breast, colon and lung are more prevalant. There are routine exams that will help deter a major illness.So it is important to be cooperate with our physicians when asked to participate in one of these tests! Now the lecture is over....getting back to our demeanor when we are with our sick loved one.
We have been personally touched by cancer by many of our family members. It is never easy. You read text on how we should make them feel comfortable. Is there any rule on how to do this? Certainly the sick individual and his personality is to considered. Focusing on his appearance before his illness helps to stay focused on him as an individual. Holding his hand and saying nothing, and crying is useful and can let him know how much you care.
Photographs of the person in his days of health can help focus on who he is as a person. Illness can change our appearance. Some prefer to have only immediate family visit them. Some patients prefer to have all his friends around him at this crucial point in his life. Certainly we would want to respect the wishes of our loved one and maintain his dignity.
Another matter to be considered is TREATMENT. Does the patient prefer to have treatment or not have treatment! If he chooses to forego treatment, are we ready to support him in that decision? This is more difficult as it requires a sincere demostration of love. It is the most common topic for discussion when the family rallies for the solution. Ultimately, the decision falls on the patient!
For the most part, our family have lost spiritual brothers and sisters, that is, those that are related to us in the faith. We have said goodbye to family members also. We have been able to share with them the hope of all sickness and death wiped out forever in the near future. Revelation 21:3,4. Of course this is their belief, so it is comforting for them to hear it from us. They realize that they will only be "asleep" for a short time before they are resurrected and restored to perfect health. Sickness and death will soon be things of the past! John 5:28,29. In general, all sickness will be gone. No more sadness and tears for losing those we love! Rather there will be tears of joy when we see our loved ones alive again!
How do we start to be a part of this joyous time? John 17:3 says the "this means everlasting life their taking in knowledge of you the only true God and of the one whom you sent forth, Jesus Christ"
There are seven million dedicated persons all over the world declaring this wonderful message for the benefit of all mankind! They are Jehovah's Witnesses.
There are routine exams that will detect a potential problem long before it becomes serious. For men, prostate, lung and colon cancer are the most common. In women, breast, colon and lung are more prevalant. There are routine exams that will help deter a major illness.So it is important to be cooperate with our physicians when asked to participate in one of these tests! Now the lecture is over....getting back to our demeanor when we are with our sick loved one.
We have been personally touched by cancer by many of our family members. It is never easy. You read text on how we should make them feel comfortable. Is there any rule on how to do this? Certainly the sick individual and his personality is to considered. Focusing on his appearance before his illness helps to stay focused on him as an individual. Holding his hand and saying nothing, and crying is useful and can let him know how much you care.
Photographs of the person in his days of health can help focus on who he is as a person. Illness can change our appearance. Some prefer to have only immediate family visit them. Some patients prefer to have all his friends around him at this crucial point in his life. Certainly we would want to respect the wishes of our loved one and maintain his dignity.
Another matter to be considered is TREATMENT. Does the patient prefer to have treatment or not have treatment! If he chooses to forego treatment, are we ready to support him in that decision? This is more difficult as it requires a sincere demostration of love. It is the most common topic for discussion when the family rallies for the solution. Ultimately, the decision falls on the patient!
For the most part, our family have lost spiritual brothers and sisters, that is, those that are related to us in the faith. We have said goodbye to family members also. We have been able to share with them the hope of all sickness and death wiped out forever in the near future. Revelation 21:3,4. Of course this is their belief, so it is comforting for them to hear it from us. They realize that they will only be "asleep" for a short time before they are resurrected and restored to perfect health. Sickness and death will soon be things of the past! John 5:28,29. In general, all sickness will be gone. No more sadness and tears for losing those we love! Rather there will be tears of joy when we see our loved ones alive again!
How do we start to be a part of this joyous time? John 17:3 says the "this means everlasting life their taking in knowledge of you the only true God and of the one whom you sent forth, Jesus Christ"
There are seven million dedicated persons all over the world declaring this wonderful message for the benefit of all mankind! They are Jehovah's Witnesses.
If We Live Forever, Where?
My last blog was reasoning on why we die and on living forever according to the bible. The first mention of death is in Genesis 2:17.
For the sake argument and differences in opinion, let us say we CAN live forever! Where do we live? This earth as we know it is polluted and ruination is what we see! It is full of crime, immorality and hatred. Who would want to live forever under these conditions?
The bible has the answers. Psalms 37:10,11 says "...the meek will possess the earth and find your exquisite delight in the abundance of peace.." Better conditions to be certain! How will this happen and when?
Please read Daniel 2:44. This is definitely Good News! Presently there are close to 7 million persons announcing this fine message for the benefit of all! Take a moment to listen to it!
For the sake argument and differences in opinion, let us say we CAN live forever! Where do we live? This earth as we know it is polluted and ruination is what we see! It is full of crime, immorality and hatred. Who would want to live forever under these conditions?
The bible has the answers. Psalms 37:10,11 says "...the meek will possess the earth and find your exquisite delight in the abundance of peace.." Better conditions to be certain! How will this happen and when?
Please read Daniel 2:44. This is definitely Good News! Presently there are close to 7 million persons announcing this fine message for the benefit of all! Take a moment to listen to it!
Monday, November 7, 2011
Is It Possible To Live Forever? Yes It Is!
The Bible book of Genesis speaks of seven men who lived more than 900 years, all of them being born prior to the Flood of Noah’s day. They were Adam, Seth, Enosh, Kenan, Jared, Methuselah, and Noah. (Genesis 5:5-27; 9:29) Many of these men may be unfamiliar to most people, but all of them were among the first ten generations in human history. Methuselah is well-known for having lived the longest—a record 969 years!
The search for the "fountain of youth" has been ongoing for so many years! Why are our bodies degenerating when scientists say the body is so well constructed so as to continue living! Professor of Medicine Tom Kirkwood once said that aging “remains one of the great mysteries of medical science.” The effort to find the key to stop the aging process continues to this day.
The Authority on the biological make-up of humans should certainly have the answer! After all, he created the first man. Please don't be quick to be sceptical about this comment! We are touching on a very important topic! Who does not want to continue living? To be true to ourselves, let's consider the word of the Highest Authority that knows us better than anyone else. He placed our cells in motion. He knows how they work and why they work. We give tremendous credit to scientists when they discover an intricate part of what makes us function, even in awe of that one! Certainly, we would want to consider the Grand Creator in this mix!
Consider:
To Jehovah God, aging is neither a mystery nor a problem without a solution. He created the first man, Adam, perfect and purposed that humans should live forever. Sadly, Adam decided to turn his back on God. As a result, he fell into sin and became imperfect. Herein lies the explanation scientists have been looking for: “Through one man sin entered into the world and death through sin, and thus death spread to all men because they had all sinned.” (Romans 5:12) It is because of sin and imperfection that we get sick, grow old, and die.
To believe this, we must know the person who inspired this to be written.."upon the basis of a hope of the everlasting life which God, who cannot lie, promised before times long lasting" Titus 1:2. Our Creator cannot lie!
The search for the "fountain of youth" has been ongoing for so many years! Why are our bodies degenerating when scientists say the body is so well constructed so as to continue living! Professor of Medicine Tom Kirkwood once said that aging “remains one of the great mysteries of medical science.” The effort to find the key to stop the aging process continues to this day.
The Authority on the biological make-up of humans should certainly have the answer! After all, he created the first man. Please don't be quick to be sceptical about this comment! We are touching on a very important topic! Who does not want to continue living? To be true to ourselves, let's consider the word of the Highest Authority that knows us better than anyone else. He placed our cells in motion. He knows how they work and why they work. We give tremendous credit to scientists when they discover an intricate part of what makes us function, even in awe of that one! Certainly, we would want to consider the Grand Creator in this mix!
Consider:
To Jehovah God, aging is neither a mystery nor a problem without a solution. He created the first man, Adam, perfect and purposed that humans should live forever. Sadly, Adam decided to turn his back on God. As a result, he fell into sin and became imperfect. Herein lies the explanation scientists have been looking for: “Through one man sin entered into the world and death through sin, and thus death spread to all men because they had all sinned.” (Romans 5:12) It is because of sin and imperfection that we get sick, grow old, and die.
To believe this, we must know the person who inspired this to be written.."upon the basis of a hope of the everlasting life which God, who cannot lie, promised before times long lasting" Titus 1:2. Our Creator cannot lie!
Saturday, November 5, 2011
What Is The Condition Of The Dead?
What is the condition of the dead? Seems like a subject you would pass up immediately, but a very appropriate subject today at a funeral discourse.
Our dear relative is now gone...so, where is he now? There are so many diverse opinions, but to stick with the facts, the bible says they are "conscious of nothing at all". What a relief for those who may have thought he was suffering a torment or enjoying bliss in the heavens. Ecclesiaster 9:5. They are simply unconscious...asleep..feeling nothing at all. He certainly will be sadly missed, but he is not suffering nor feeling anything at all! Why do we die in the first place?
It wasn't meant to be that way....the problem started with the first human pair. Their disobedience to God's law to stay away from one fruit tree cost them their lives and those of their offspring. Genesis 2: 15-17 So the very first mention of death was in Genesis. However, we were meant to live forever!
But some say "I have seen a dead relative..she is not dead at all..I spoke with her". Actually the person is not alive. You may definitely have seen something, but remember that 2 Corinthians 11:14 says that "Satan keeps transforming himself into an angel of light". We may need to read the above text in Genesis again to see how we are all affected by the first disobedience. We die..plain and simple, and isn't it wonderful that our Creator tells us what the condition of the dead is. Without that knowledge, we may think up many possibilities and not be comforted at the time of our loss.
We will miss our relative but we have the assurance that we will see him again in perfect health here on this earth. John 5: 28,29
It wasn't meant to be that way....the problem started with the first human pair. Their disobedience to God's law to stay away from one fruit tree cost them their lives and those of their offspring. Genesis 2: 15-17 So the very first mention of death was in Genesis. However, we were meant to live forever!
But some say "I have seen a dead relative..she is not dead at all..I spoke with her". Actually the person is not alive. You may definitely have seen something, but remember that 2 Corinthians 11:14 says that "Satan keeps transforming himself into an angel of light". We may need to read the above text in Genesis again to see how we are all affected by the first disobedience. We die..plain and simple, and isn't it wonderful that our Creator tells us what the condition of the dead is. Without that knowledge, we may think up many possibilities and not be comforted at the time of our loss.
We will miss our relative but we have the assurance that we will see him again in perfect health here on this earth. John 5: 28,29
What Is A Realistic Goal For Alex With Angelman's Syndrome
There are no marks, limitationes that I could see or even know of, so I would guess that the sky is the limit...How could we know what is locked up in the brain of a speechless person. How do we unlock Alex's potential. Pleasant surprises is my goal! Expose him to different program on his new iPad and watch him go. I have started this and will admit to frustration....but trying to be empathetic....feeling what he is feeling!
For certain, he is interested in his new "tech toy"...turning it into a means of communication is another matter. His fine motor skills need fine tuning......but that is ok....we will work with what he can do! Music is absolutely a motivation! This gives me a place to start!
Expensive...yes! However, he will not be driving a car nor riding an expensive bicycle, so....why not!
My Alex is my grandson. We have been caring for him since 1990. He is part of our family in all the senses! We love him and will continue to hope for his betterment now and in the future. Of course the basis for perfect health in the future for him is based on Isaiah 35.
I am currently working on a video that will show his progress in using his iPad! I will share it with you when completed!
For certain, he is interested in his new "tech toy"...turning it into a means of communication is another matter. His fine motor skills need fine tuning......but that is ok....we will work with what he can do! Music is absolutely a motivation! This gives me a place to start!
Expensive...yes! However, he will not be driving a car nor riding an expensive bicycle, so....why not!
I am currently working on a video that will show his progress in using his iPad! I will share it with you when completed!
Friday, November 4, 2011
Hot Caldo De Res (beef soup) For A Cold Rainy Day
We thought we would make a hot soup on this cold rainy windy day...why not Caldo de Res which is a beef soup/stew? We did. enjoyed it and even have some leftover for tomorrow. It is nourishing and can be eaten with corn tortillas! The recipe is below. Try it......you might like it!
Ingredients
- 2 pounds beef shank, bone-in
- 1 medium-sized white onion, small dice, plus 1 cup chopped onion, for garnish
- 1 tablespoon salt
- 1 tablespoon pepper
- 12 ounces beef stock
- 12 ounces stewed tomatoes
- 4 ears corn
- 4 baking potatoes, like russets, unpeeled
- 2 chayote, zucchini may be substituted
- 6 carrots, peeled
- 1/4 cup chopped cilantro, plus more, for garnish
- Water, to cover
- 1 head cabbage
- 1 lime or lemon, cut into wedges
- Corn tortillas, for garnish
- Sliced jalapenos, for garnish
Directions
Chop the beef shank into large chunks, keeping some attached to the bone, as bone marrow is an important element of the dish. Saute the beef chunks with the chopped onions, salt, and pepper. After beef is browned, add the beef stock and the stewed tomatoes. Bring the mixture to a boil and then simmer just below boiling point for about one hour, until the beef is "spoon tender."
Wash the vegetables. Cut each ear of corn and each potato into quarters. Cut equivalent chunks of carrots and chayote (if zucchini is used, keep pieces bigger as they will cook faster than chayote). Add the vegetables to the soup. Chop 1/4 cup of cilantro and add it to the mixture. Add water, to cover, the vegetables and bring the mixture to a boil.
Reduce the heat to medium and simmer for 20 minutes. Cut the head of white cabbage into 1/2 and then into thirds, leaving the stem of the cabbage in. Wedge the cabbage chunks into the mixture and simmer for 10 more minutes.
Serve, making sure each bowl has chunks of all the vegetables. Garnish with a squeeze of lemon or lime. Serve with heated corn tortillas. Caldo de Res is accompanied by chopped sides of onion and cilantro which may be added according, to taste. Also, chopped jalapenos may be added for the perfect hangover cure.
Making Three Loaves of French Bread For Dinner
Being indoors for almost two weeks with a cold inspired me to make some bread. When I looked up some recipes, I noticed french bread. Why not try it for the first time! I love to cook and haven't done so for most of my recuperation time.
I began getting the ingredients together and was surprised at the simplicity of baking this favorite bread of ours. I have made tortillas for many years and it is far more laborous to make tortillas. Rolling out each individually is a bit more tiring...baking the bread was rather simple!
Lay the dough across a cookie sheet and let it rise. Place on top rack of oven. Then...place another cookie sheet on bottom of oven filled with boiling water. Brush on a little water over the loaves before placing in oven.
Somehow this is to have a nice crust on the loaves. See the placements of sheet pans!
The final result was a nice brown crust.......and delicious tasting bread. It would have been nice to have made twice as much as it didn't last long! Maybe next time! The RECIPE is shown below!
2 1/2 cups hot water
2 tablespoons shortening
2 teaspoons salt
2 tablespoons sugar
2 tablespoons instant yeast
6 1/2 cups all-purpose flour
Read more: http://www.food.com/recipe/french-bread-56467#ixzz1cijqkhhJ
Read more: http://www.food.com/recipe/french-bread-56467#ixzz1cik7MF5Z
I began getting the ingredients together and was surprised at the simplicity of baking this favorite bread of ours. I have made tortillas for many years and it is far more laborous to make tortillas. Rolling out each individually is a bit more tiring...baking the bread was rather simple!
Somehow this is to have a nice crust on the loaves. See the placements of sheet pans!
Read more: http://www.food.com/recipe/french-bread-56467#ixzz1cijqkhhJ
Directions:
- 1Place hot water in large bowl.
- 2Add the shortening, salt and sugar.
- 3Stir and let stand until lukewarm.
- 4Sprinkle yeast over all.
- 5Beat until smooth.
- 6Add 3 cups flour and beat until mixed.
- 7Work in 2 cups flour with a wooden spoon.
- 8Gradually knead the last 1-1/2 cups flour in until no longer sticky-about 3 minutes.
- 9Cover and let rise for 30 minutes.
- 10Punch down and place on floured board.
- 11Roll out to a rectangle.
- 12Cut lengthwise in half.
- 13With each strip, roll up lengthwise and pinch seams.
- 14Roll gently back and forth with hands to desired length and to smooth loaf out.
- 15Lightly grease cookie sheet or use French loaf bread pans.
- 16Cover and let rise for 25 minutes.
- 17Cut diagonal slashes across bread about 1/4" deep.
- 18Preheat oven, pour boiling water on large cookie sheet to fill.
- 19Place cookie sheet on bottom rack in oven.
- 20Brush loaves with warm water and place bread on higher rack in oven above water.
- 21Bake at 350°F for 30-35 minutes.
Read more: http://www.food.com/recipe/french-bread-56467#ixzz1cik7MF5Z
Thursday, November 3, 2011
Standing Here! Looking Back! Years of Experience!
The old saying looking back is 20/20 has some truth in it! When we have lived through generations of our family history, we become somewhat of an expert or at least an eye witness to some highs and lows of our family! Lots of tears, laughter, joy, pride are in the mix! As the years go by, the pain we felt when bad decisions are made on the part of the younger ones, seems to pale....Yes..the bad decisons did lead to many changes in their lives.....we learn that no matter how desperately we want the best for them, the decision is theirs to make!
There is some comfort that we gave it our best effort to help...that counts for something! Getting older with the knowledge that we have helped in some way is somewhat gratifying and give us a feeling of purpose in our "winter years"! Are we wiser? I guess that would be relative....did we show a good example to our family members? Maybe...maybe not! Is that the point?
We all have a different fund of tools for use when the need arises, that is, we use what we have....case on point: My father raised us with the discipline that he was raised with. He wasn't the best example as he would drink alcohol on a regular basis. He did work and bring home a paycheck and had a structured home...something my mom was largely responsible for, the structured home. A strict man, my father! I loved my father...despite the "iron hand.. it was all he knew...he didn't have a father to raise him..only an older brother. Being strict was necessary to keep the family together...he thought he was doing the right thing! He was using the only tools he had known!
On one particular day, he sobbed in front of me, feeling so regretful for not being the person he should have been. He had started a venture into the bible and began measuring himself as our Creator would see...it was in that moment that EVERYTHING was better...that momentary event that would erase any lows of the past. He had been working with what he had...the only life he knew was a life of discipline, sometimes harsh discipline. Now he would be funded with knowledge of a better way. He could now use those "tools".
I will never forget that moment...isn't it interesting how a moment can stay with us. It definitely had an impact on me personally...to this day, I make a real effort to look past the action and try to reach the person behind this action for their motive! We are all walking around with some baggage of some kind or another. This life isn't easy! My father died in 1986.
Of course, there are countless moments of joy to recount...grandparents out there know what I am talking about. The birth of the first grandchild, then second and then more! I have experienced that and even raised two of them! Yes....experience...I have had experience! But I have not been alone. I have a wonderful husband beside me that has experienced most of this with me! We both lean on our God Jehovah for strength!
If you are young, why not try asking an older one about their life in the good old days! Us seniors love to relate our history...if there is someone that will listen!
In our younger days...my husband and partner!
There is some comfort that we gave it our best effort to help...that counts for something! Getting older with the knowledge that we have helped in some way is somewhat gratifying and give us a feeling of purpose in our "winter years"! Are we wiser? I guess that would be relative....did we show a good example to our family members? Maybe...maybe not! Is that the point?
We all have a different fund of tools for use when the need arises, that is, we use what we have....case on point: My father raised us with the discipline that he was raised with. He wasn't the best example as he would drink alcohol on a regular basis. He did work and bring home a paycheck and had a structured home...something my mom was largely responsible for, the structured home. A strict man, my father! I loved my father...despite the "iron hand.. it was all he knew...he didn't have a father to raise him..only an older brother. Being strict was necessary to keep the family together...he thought he was doing the right thing! He was using the only tools he had known!
On one particular day, he sobbed in front of me, feeling so regretful for not being the person he should have been. He had started a venture into the bible and began measuring himself as our Creator would see...it was in that moment that EVERYTHING was better...that momentary event that would erase any lows of the past. He had been working with what he had...the only life he knew was a life of discipline, sometimes harsh discipline. Now he would be funded with knowledge of a better way. He could now use those "tools".
I will never forget that moment...isn't it interesting how a moment can stay with us. It definitely had an impact on me personally...to this day, I make a real effort to look past the action and try to reach the person behind this action for their motive! We are all walking around with some baggage of some kind or another. This life isn't easy! My father died in 1986.
Of course, there are countless moments of joy to recount...grandparents out there know what I am talking about. The birth of the first grandchild, then second and then more! I have experienced that and even raised two of them! Yes....experience...I have had experience! But I have not been alone. I have a wonderful husband beside me that has experienced most of this with me! We both lean on our God Jehovah for strength!
If you are young, why not try asking an older one about their life in the good old days! Us seniors love to relate our history...if there is someone that will listen!
In our younger days...my husband and partner!
Wednesday, November 2, 2011
When You Get Older Recuperation Is Slower!
I am trying to keep my humor here, but slow recuperation is not pleasant...I have things to do, people to see and places to go! So why does this common cold take so long to go away!
The bright side of this is that I have noticed the bathroom sink needs repair, the windows need a good cleaning (we skipped them this spring), my kitchen vent hood is greasy and there is dust in places I've never noticed before! I guess this means I'm getting better!
For months, I have been receiving an email that invites me to order groceries online from our local store. I have never done it, because it is so close to our home. Well....I am home now...I think it might be fun to see how this works. The first order is free, so what can I lose? I did it and will have them delivered today! Of course, I would not order perishables and items to be weighed. I like to choose my fruits and vegetables myself...it is only MY eyes that can determine what veggies and fruits are right for me!
I have watched more TV than ever...the food network has been my viewing of choice! I find no interest in cupcake making so would never watch those episodes.........UNTIL NOW! I enjoyed watching the episodes. When I couldn't find the remote to change it, I was forced to watch! Now...I like it!
Amazing how we can tune in to our surrounding in a keener sense when we actually stay there. There is a lesson to be learned here, but I don't have a clue as to what it may be! Oh well, when I get back to my normal routine, those things won't matter much!
In the meantime, I will see what new interests I can discover...I've noticed some new cobwebs on my bedroom ceiling....got to get to that! But wait....let me get completely well first!
The bright side of this is that I have noticed the bathroom sink needs repair, the windows need a good cleaning (we skipped them this spring), my kitchen vent hood is greasy and there is dust in places I've never noticed before! I guess this means I'm getting better!
For months, I have been receiving an email that invites me to order groceries online from our local store. I have never done it, because it is so close to our home. Well....I am home now...I think it might be fun to see how this works. The first order is free, so what can I lose? I did it and will have them delivered today! Of course, I would not order perishables and items to be weighed. I like to choose my fruits and vegetables myself...it is only MY eyes that can determine what veggies and fruits are right for me!
I have watched more TV than ever...the food network has been my viewing of choice! I find no interest in cupcake making so would never watch those episodes.........UNTIL NOW! I enjoyed watching the episodes. When I couldn't find the remote to change it, I was forced to watch! Now...I like it!
Amazing how we can tune in to our surrounding in a keener sense when we actually stay there. There is a lesson to be learned here, but I don't have a clue as to what it may be! Oh well, when I get back to my normal routine, those things won't matter much!
In the meantime, I will see what new interests I can discover...I've noticed some new cobwebs on my bedroom ceiling....got to get to that! But wait....let me get completely well first!
Tuesday, November 1, 2011
Here In California USA The OLDIES Get The GOODIES!
I remember when I was able to order from the first Senior Meal Menu . It said you had to be 55 years old. I was proud! Why..I really don't know! We were on vacation in New York or Colorado (can't remember which), living in California. I held the first senior menu in my hands... As the years went by, we found that the lower cost of these senior meals were recouped by smaller portions. Where does it say we eat less because we have grown a bit older? I have seen nothing of the kind nor is it true. The portions you ate the day before at 54 years does not change in 24 hours..when you turn 55.
Free coffee at Jack in the Box, front of the bus seating for elderly and disabled, generously discounted bus pass, discounts at theme parks, no co-pays for some insurance plans, free lunch at local senior centers, even free physical exams once a year through some plans. These are some of the advantages of having the "gray crown".
For the most part, the above mentioned are services/provisions from local social services. However on an individual basis, we can contribute to making our older ones special. I have done that for those in our local congregation since 2005. Their expressions of gratitude tells me I should continue...
Get four or five younger friends who are expecially industrious in planning an event such as a dinner, small gathering, etc. You can come up with the ideas...they can be the runners! You would be surprised at the willingness to help can be these youngers ones! Of course, let's identify "younger". Answer: Anyone younger than me! I chose the thirty something age...Experienced and knowledgeable about the older ones...
Invitations to your event would be an extra touch that would make it so special. Placecards and selected seating was another consideration. Decorated tables would make it awesome! We are talking about possible shut-ins. Those with some measure of disability and even the depressed and shy! Taking that into consideration, we provided transportation for them, and selected someone they were familiar with to ride with them! Of course you would have to determine how many persons to invite. This would all depend on your resources and event site! In my case, we couldn't afford to rent even a small room for such an event. Besides that, a room would be so impersonable! So....
We decided to empty out our living room.....yes we did......and replace with folding table and chairs..Of course, this took the cooperation of my husband. It was such a special event we were trying to create that, the extra work was really worth it!
You know how we like to tell our story! We were given the opportunity to tell something about ourselves! We have a lot to say! This helped us to know the person better!...Then the DANCING!
The floor was cleared and we danced...What a change....we don't do that often...at least, not most of us! I seen smiles I hadn't seen for awhile! We were all having a good time....The finally the
GROUP PHOTO
Free coffee at Jack in the Box, front of the bus seating for elderly and disabled, generously discounted bus pass, discounts at theme parks, no co-pays for some insurance plans, free lunch at local senior centers, even free physical exams once a year through some plans. These are some of the advantages of having the "gray crown".
For the most part, the above mentioned are services/provisions from local social services. However on an individual basis, we can contribute to making our older ones special. I have done that for those in our local congregation since 2005. Their expressions of gratitude tells me I should continue...
Get four or five younger friends who are expecially industrious in planning an event such as a dinner, small gathering, etc. You can come up with the ideas...they can be the runners! You would be surprised at the willingness to help can be these youngers ones! Of course, let's identify "younger". Answer: Anyone younger than me! I chose the thirty something age...Experienced and knowledgeable about the older ones...
Invitations to your event would be an extra touch that would make it so special. Placecards and selected seating was another consideration. Decorated tables would make it awesome! We are talking about possible shut-ins. Those with some measure of disability and even the depressed and shy! Taking that into consideration, we provided transportation for them, and selected someone they were familiar with to ride with them! Of course you would have to determine how many persons to invite. This would all depend on your resources and event site! In my case, we couldn't afford to rent even a small room for such an event. Besides that, a room would be so impersonable! So....
We decided to empty out our living room.....yes we did......and replace with folding table and chairs..Of course, this took the cooperation of my husband. It was such a special event we were trying to create that, the extra work was really worth it!
We had 5 persons that served the meal and attended to any other need they may have including one person in particular that helped me handle the food and pass it on to the servers. Then came the moment when each was given opportunity to relate an experience..............................
You know how we like to tell our story! We were given the opportunity to tell something about ourselves! We have a lot to say! This helped us to know the person better!...Then the DANCING!
The floor was cleared and we danced...What a change....we don't do that often...at least, not most of us! I seen smiles I hadn't seen for awhile! We were all having a good time....The finally the
GROUP PHOTO
Senior Dinner 2011
It was a pleasure to plan an event where at least 25 of my friends could enjoy themselves for 6 hours of interaction, music and experiences! I hope to do it again! Not all good times come as freebees, but somehow it is SO worth it!
The Common Cold Isn't So Common For Us Oldsters!
This is day 9 of my common cold! On day 6, I was concerned that this cold wasn't getting better! We made an appointment with the doctor who told us that we had a cold of the virus type. No antibiotic needed! Whatever happened to the common cold? I remember sniffles and a little cough. Back then, we needed a chest vaporub and tissues! The "common" cold has turned vicious! I do have seasonal asthma, so was given a prescription for an inhaler which would help.
This means that we would have to get over this terrible "common" cold by ourselves...no help from technology. No quick fix! We had the flu shot, but doesn't have anything to do with what we have. The coughing, phlegm and nasal conjestion is only part of the common cold. Thank goodness I irritated my sinuses because I was given something for that. It has helped to further irritate!
Even when I would feel better, I could not be out socially because of the hacking and spitting of this terrible phlegm. A bad name has this PHLEGM. But wait, in looking up this symptom, I found that phlegm is produced in our bodies all the time! It is beneficial! It is when we "feel" it, that we want to get it out! I will leave this subject for you to research as I find it kind of gross, but interesting at the same time!
Staying home gives me time to blog and catch up on my reading. So, it can't be all bad! My husband has already continued his normal routine, as he somehow has a better resistance than I do! I will take a little longer!
All week, I hadn't cooked, so I thought I would cook yesterday. My apprehension about cooking was spreading germs. I wanted to try to start the meal! It's been a week! We normally would have a "mask" in the garage. You know, the kind that you use when doing yardwork to ward off allergies! Well, I couldn't find one! So I get my gloves. I have plenty of gloves! I keep supplied as they are useful for Alex's care. Most who have followed my blogs know that we care for our adult grandson who has Angelman Syndrome! Well...back to the initial theme.....
I pulled it off! I made some nice ground beef chili..it turned out very delicious! Being out of my comfort zone is so unpleasant! I want to get back to my routine. I do not want my recuperation to slow me down...At least I had the opportunity to do a little of what I enjoy! I do enjoy cooking! I made plenty, so won't have to worry for a day or so....My husband is not demanding and can do lighter cooking if he feels the need.
I guess there is something positive about getting older....you don't have to rush to "get better". You don't have a clock to punch! If visitors come by to visit while you are sick, there is no urgency to "look good". They understand! Also, it is OK to blow your nose in front of them..They understand!
Come to think of it.....it's not so bad getting older.....it beats the alternative!
This means that we would have to get over this terrible "common" cold by ourselves...no help from technology. No quick fix! We had the flu shot, but doesn't have anything to do with what we have. The coughing, phlegm and nasal conjestion is only part of the common cold. Thank goodness I irritated my sinuses because I was given something for that. It has helped to further irritate!
Even when I would feel better, I could not be out socially because of the hacking and spitting of this terrible phlegm. A bad name has this PHLEGM. But wait, in looking up this symptom, I found that phlegm is produced in our bodies all the time! It is beneficial! It is when we "feel" it, that we want to get it out! I will leave this subject for you to research as I find it kind of gross, but interesting at the same time!
Staying home gives me time to blog and catch up on my reading. So, it can't be all bad! My husband has already continued his normal routine, as he somehow has a better resistance than I do! I will take a little longer!
All week, I hadn't cooked, so I thought I would cook yesterday. My apprehension about cooking was spreading germs. I wanted to try to start the meal! It's been a week! We normally would have a "mask" in the garage. You know, the kind that you use when doing yardwork to ward off allergies! Well, I couldn't find one! So I get my gloves. I have plenty of gloves! I keep supplied as they are useful for Alex's care. Most who have followed my blogs know that we care for our adult grandson who has Angelman Syndrome! Well...back to the initial theme.....
I pulled it off! I made some nice ground beef chili..it turned out very delicious! Being out of my comfort zone is so unpleasant! I want to get back to my routine. I do not want my recuperation to slow me down...At least I had the opportunity to do a little of what I enjoy! I do enjoy cooking! I made plenty, so won't have to worry for a day or so....My husband is not demanding and can do lighter cooking if he feels the need.
I guess there is something positive about getting older....you don't have to rush to "get better". You don't have a clock to punch! If visitors come by to visit while you are sick, there is no urgency to "look good". They understand! Also, it is OK to blow your nose in front of them..They understand!
Come to think of it.....it's not so bad getting older.....it beats the alternative!
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